Thanks to everyone who submitted anonymous questions via my ASK ME! page. This was the last week for questions so I hope everyone enjoyed it!
I did have a problem with Springform this week though and I kept getting errors when trying to review my questions. So if for some reason your question was not answered I am SO sorry. They estimated that 4 questions were lost. It was a bad technology week for me! Don’t even get me started on the blackberry!
But if it was a question you really wanted an answer to then just shoot me an email! With that, happy Friday everyone…enjoy your night!
Question: Do you aim for a certain amount of calories a day?
I don’t count calories but I just aim to go to bed happy and not hungry. I do wear a heart rate monitor when I work out so that I can see on days when I have REALLY long runs how much I need to eat to make up for that deficit. For example a 14 mile run usually burns me about 1100-1200 calories and I need to make that up! So on those days I aim for calorie dense foods…avacados, nuts, nut butters mostly. But usually I like to listen to my body’s clues when it comes to calories. If I don’t eat enough at the end of the day I will notice that my hands and feet are REALLY cold and then usually I tend to dream about food. Crazy? Maybe…but it is really just my body talking to me and I am getting better about listening. I have been known to wake up at 2:00a.m. and go eat! I hate to feel hungry and I don’t think anyone should.
Question: I am getting married in a few months and I am worried about my husband’s bachelor party. Did Keith have a bachelor party that involved a strip club? Did you care?
Keith did have a bachelor party that took place at a strip club. Honestly, it didn’t bother me at all. I am NOT a fan of strip clubs but I also know that they seem to be a “right of passage” for bachelor parties. I rolled with it. I trust Keith, I love Keith and I knew he wouldn’t do anything irresponsible or wreckless. He just isn’t that guy. If I were you, I would just not worry about it. Let him go and have a fun night with his boys and you go and have an equally fun night with your girls! He loves YOU and a strip club bachelor party won’t change that.
Question: I was wondering if you have always been as athletic as you are now? If not, what was your “path”? I know you’re a personal trainer and everything, but running like 10 miles in the morning is quite insane! How long did it take you to be able to run as much? I love running and do lots of other sports, but I have the feeling my progress is so slow (I’m training for a half-marathon). Thanks!
I have been running my entire life. I think my first track meet was when I was around the age of 6! haha! (To see a picture go here) I grew up running track because it was the only thing I was good at and I was quite speedy! In middle school and high school I was a sprinter. I ran the 200 and 400 m dash and I ran the 1600 meter relay. I also was a high jumper. Once high school started I moved to doing track year-round. I did Cross Country in the fall (to build endurance) then club indoor track in the winter, school spring track and then club summer track. I maintained that for 4 years and it was intense. Once college rolled around I was BURNED OUT! I was offered some college scholarships but I turned them down. After college I was ready to get back into running and I started out slow! I couldn’t even run 3 miles without stopping. I just built up my mileage and started running some 5K’s and then I decided I want to run a 1/2 marathon and a marathon. I followed training schedules for both…to see them go here. It just took a lot of dedication and a lot of heart!
Question: I have cellulite on the backs of my legs, do you think running can get rid of it? I LOVE running. Hate weights. I do try to do a bit, about 2 full body workouts a week but my true love is running. I just started seriously adding miles the last two months and I hoping this will help…what do you think?
Running will definitely help but in order to build lean muscle mass (LMM) and replace fat you really need to lift weights. I don’t think running alone is going to do it but a combination of running and weight lifting will be ideal to lower your body fat and build up that LMM. I also tend to be in the camp that cellulite is genetic and sometimes even the most fit athlete will still have it. Keep me posted…
Question: you have a serious six-pack in the picture with your husband! Do you always have one even tho you mainly just run?
Oh goodness…that is so sweet. Thank you. I am not the best at doing strictly ab work. But I do try to incorporate functional ab/core exercises into everything I do. Like I tend to sit on a stability ball instead of a chair when working at my desk, I always keep my abs tight and engaged when lifting weights (I really focus on it) and I also keep my abs tight when I run. When I do ab exercises…I do a lot of planks and hovers…but I could definitely do more. Mostly my abs come from running.
Question: You have mentioed before that cereal is a trigger food for you. It is for me too and so I was wondering how do you beat the craving or do you just give in?
Cereal IS a big trigger for me. I can easily eat an entire box in one sitting. But for me, it isn’t usually a trigger unless I eat it. What I mean is that Keith likes cereal and we definitely have it in our house. I have no issues with it being in the house. It is when I say I am going to eat just one bowl and inevitably that usually turns into 3 or 4. I don’t know what it is about cereal…it just seems like it takes a lot to fill me up. But I have learned that if I refuse to let myself have cereal I WILL go nuts. So on those days when I want it…I just give in to temptation and go for it. Sometimes I can eat 1 bowl and be totally fine…other days I eat 3 or 4. But I just move on…I don’t do it very often and I refuse to feel guilty about it. Refuse!
Question: I love your wedding pictures and your dress. How did you know it was “the dress” and how much were you willing to spend? I am getting married soon and haven’t been able to commit to a dress yet.
I LOVED my wedding dress too! Thank you so much! I actually had another dress picked out and when I went back to try it on one last time and make the purchase my mom spotted the one I got in the window. Apparently it was new and had just come in. I tried it on and thought…this is it! My mom agreed that it was perfect! And we got it! Ha! My dress was actually quite inexpensive but that was something I wasn’t willing to spend thousands of dollars on. I had a $1000 limit and the dress, shoes and alterations total ran me about that. You will find your dress…don’t worry!
Question: Do you like candy? If so what is your favorite?
I am not as much of a candy freak as my husband. I typically tend to crave the salty things…chips, pretzels, etc. But my favorite is the combination of both. I can put down a pound of chocolate covered pretzels in no time! YUM!! But as for candy I really like Hot Tamales (my usual movie candy) and my favorite candy bar is, hands down, a TWIX!
Question: Do you have a tattoo? Does Keith?
No, I do not have a tattoo. I always wanted one but I couldn’t ever think of anything I liked enough to have permanently put on my body. Keith has 1 tattoo. He has his fraternity emblem (Sigma Nu) on his ankle. I think it is cute!
Question: Do you drink alcohol?
Very rarely. I do enjoy a nice glass of red wine every now and then….usually when I am with my mom or out to dinner. Keith and I will sometimes split a margarita or drink a beer now and then but for the most part we aren’t big drinkers. No real reason….just a personal choice.
Question: I am new to your blog and am loving it! Could I please have the recipe for the meal you had last night (3-4-10) of chicken spaghetti? It looks yummy! Or are your recipes listed somewhere on your site? Thanks a bunch.
Dinner last night was really yum! All I did was brown ground chicken in a nonstick skillet. Then I added a jar of spaghetti sauce and about 2 cups of a frozen mixed vegetable blend. I served it over gluten-free penne pasta noodles from our favorite GF pasta company, Tinkayda. Also all my recipes are listed under the tab, ‘How I EAT’ on the top of my blog! Happy cooking and thanks for following!!
Question: Are you always so happy and if so can I have some of your happy drugs?
Thanks!! I definitely have my moments but for the most part I AM happy. I think being happy is a choice and I try really hard to choose to be happy everyday. With that said, I also think that your happiness is also affected by your circumstances. And right now, I am in a REALLY good place! I love my job, I love my husband, I am running great and winter is OVER!!! haha!! Plus…I really like to smile! I figure if I am going to have wrinkles in my older years I want them to come from smiling not frowning!
Happy Friday everyone!!! Enjoy the rest of your Day!
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cereal is my #1 trigger food as well!! i think you and keith have an amazingly solid relationship, that is so awesome! i also love that you don’t count cals, just aim to go to bed happy..that is the best attitude to have about food!
“I hate to feel hungry and I don’t think anyone should.”
One word: AMEN
And I am 100% with you on the candy deal. If it ain’t chocolate, salty, and nutty all at once, it ain’t candy to me
Happy Friday to you too!
Great Q&A! I love my cereal too, I’m glad you don’t feel guilty about eating it!
Loveee the Q+A answers! I’m a salty person too..I don’t remember the last time I ate candy or had a craving for it! But I agree w/ u on the cereals and not feeling full after 1-bowl!!! I rarely have it for b-fast but find 1-bowl is perfect pre-run fuel! And I usually add jay robb vanilla protein powder to it! Yum! I hope u are having a great friday lovee!! xoxo!
Haha ahh Peanut Butter Puffins = I can easily clear half a box in one day, so I hear ya. Cereal is delish. Have a great day deary!
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You. are. adorable. Your excitement and happiness is so obvious in reading your posts. I am the exact same way with cereal. I have it at my ouse, and am fine if I don’t start. But I refuse to feel guilty when I eat 3 or 4 bowls. I workout damnit! And, yeah, right there with you on the 2 am feedings. Maybe we are toddlers in disguise?
Awesome questions & answers
Really fun to learn more about you. I have the same problem with cereal. I still eat Cheerios, but I have them as a snack every day so I don’t really binge on them anymore- usually haha
I love this “if I am going to have wrinkles when I’m older I want them to come from smiling and not frowning.” that should be everyone’s life philosophy!
huh! You give such interesting and complete answers…thank you so much for them. I just started running and can’t even IMAGINE running 14 miles right now, but I’m getting to 4 and going strong!
YAY!! Keep it up and please keep me posted on your progress!!!
I love your answers. I’m with you on both the cereal thing and the strip club thing. I don’t mind strip clubs at all. Of course, Jason doesn’t really go to them, but if he wanted to for his bachelor party, I wouldn’t mind.
GOOD FOR YOU!!!
We gotta let those boys party for at least one night, right?!
So many of my answers would be similar to yours. Makes me smile. I’m the same about drinking for sure. And I did NOT care what happened at TCL’s bachelor party because I am a trusting girl. And he deserves it.
TCL was a Sigma Chi. We had Sigma Nu at our school (it was a pretty big Greek scene), too.
Thanks girl! That means a lot to me because lately I have gotten some “not nice” comments on my blog and it is nice to know that not everyone is a hater!
I found myself smiling so big from reading all of your responses. Even just the way your write shows how positive and enthusiastic you are about life! I can’t get enough! Thanks for the great answers- so well balanced and encouraging!
Thanks Andrea….ditto what I wrote to EE above!
I’ll take some of those Happy Drugs too please! Send them to me ASAP
…oye.
Great responses. I like that you got back into running slowly….I can’t believe that I just can’t now…and don’t want to…even though I know that would make me feel better most days…and it’s really hard when it’s nice out….I don’t know – I don’t think it’s something to be forced though – resistance is futile. Yesterday I was so tired, I just came home and did NOTHING nada not even a walk….I felt guilty because I knew that I would feel better or wake up once I got out in some fresh air – but I just couldn’t do it….so yeah, whatever.
I honestly think work is sucking the life out of me
I totally hear you on the cold hands and feet! Gotta keep that internal furnace pumping!
That’s too funny – that is EXACTLY what I say about a tattoo.
I loved reading your question and answers and learning a little bit more about you! have a great weekend!
Hi lovely lady,
I did send u an email after…but maybe u didnt get it? no big deal. hope u are having a neat day .
You got a lot of great Ask Me Anything questions. I loved reading your answers.
you make me smile! i love your answer to the last question. i think being happy is a choice too… how sad would it be to choose to be sad all the time??? no thanks!